{"id":23909,"date":"2023-01-30T12:52:36","date_gmt":"2023-01-30T10:52:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/?page_id=23909"},"modified":"2025-06-12T14:55:41","modified_gmt":"2025-06-12T12:55:41","slug":"love-bombing","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/love\/love-bombing\/","title":{"rendered":"Love Bombing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mr-md-0 mw-1300\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row pl-md-0 mt-lg-0 mt-5 mb-0 justify-content-lg-start justify-content-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-lg-5 d-flex flex-column justify-content-lg-center order-lg-1 order-2 mb-lg-0 mb-4 mt-xl-0 mt-4 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Being swept off your feet at the start of a relationship could only be a good thing, right? After all, elaborate romantic gestures are a sign of love. But what if they\u2019re not an indication of love and instead a manipulative technique called \u201clove bombing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love bombing is a trend that\u2019s taken social media by storm in recent months. This insurge of interest may be to do with how being initially showered with excessive affection, attention, and praise makes you feel special. However, <strong>love bombing promotes dependence and control in the long run.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fortunately, understanding the psychology behind love bombing can help make sense of the confusing and conflicting emotions around being love bombed. Furthermore, knowing the steps to take and behaviors to look out for can help you avoid love bombing for good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group py-4 px-3 mb-4 has-background\" style=\"background-color:#fdcd9c\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p class=\"mb-2\">To answer any questions you may have about love bombing, this article covers:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What love bombing is, including examples of love bombing behaviors<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The psychology behind love bombing<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How narcissism and love bombing may go hand-in-hand<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The relationship between attachment styles and love-bombing behaviors<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Effects of love bombing on the target<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How to recognize love bombing and protect yourself from it<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column  col-lg-7 col-md-8 col-sm-10 pr-lg-0 mb-0 order-lg-2 order-1 d-flex flex-column justify-content-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"858\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-858x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-23920\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-858x1024.jpg 858w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-251x300.jpg 251w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-768x916.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-838x1000.jpg 838w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-629x750.jpg 629w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-126x150.jpg 126w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-419x500.jpg 419w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-335x400.jpg 335w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1-92x110.jpg 92w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-298-1.jpg 1067w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 858px) 100vw, 858px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-100 py-4 mb-5 has-background\" style=\"background-color:#fbccbe\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center mb-4 bigger-heading has-text-color\" style=\"color:#513d62\">Do you know your attachment style?<br>Take our attachment quiz and find out now &#8211; fast, easy, free.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"row justify-content-center\">\n<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/quiz.attachmentproject.com\/\" class=\"button-2 text-center\" rel=\"noopener\">Start Quiz<\/a>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mb-5 mw-1000\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#c3aef0\">What is Love Bombing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Falling in love is one of the most wonderful experiences in life. Whether it happens through meeting on a dating app, a first sight meet-cute in the supermarket, or through a long-term friendship. Yet, falling in love can have it pit-falls &#8211; and serious ones at that. One of the reasons for this south turn in early relationships has been trending recently on social media apps like TikTok &#8211; where the hashtag #lovebombing has received over 274 million views. But what is love bombing? And what are typical examples of love bombing behaviors?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mb-4\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row justify-content-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-7  col-xl-6 order-md-1 order-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Love Bombing Meaning<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Love bombing is a form of manipulation in which someone showers another person with excessive affection, attention, and praise to control or exploit them.<\/strong> It\u2019s often used as a tactic in romantic relationships but can also occur in other relationships, such as friendships and work dynamics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to a recent survey, 78% of people using dating apps have experienced love bombing. And, despite popular belief, <strong>the occurrence of love bombing is pretty equal across genders,<\/strong> with around 76% of women and 63% of men reportedly having experienced love bombing at some stage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love bombing can be emotionally overwhelming and can make the person on the receiving end feel dependent on their love bomber. This can lead to an unhealthy and unbalanced relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-sm-8 col-md-5 col-xl-4 order-md-2 order-1 mb-md-0 mb-4 mt-md-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"727\" height=\"742\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-34497\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1.webp 727w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-294x300.webp 294w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-617x630.webp 617w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-600x612.webp 600w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-150x153.webp 150w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-490x500.webp 490w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-400x408.webp 400w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-247x252.webp 247w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Group-861-1-108x110.webp 108w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 727px) 100vw, 727px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mb-2 mw-1000\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity separator-sm\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Examples of Love Bombing Behaviors<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<style>\n    .behaviour-wrapper {\n        background-color:#917dbf;\n        border-radius: 25px;\n        height: 100%;\n    }\n\n    #gutenberg-content .behaviour-wrapper h3 {\n        font-size: 20px !important;\n        margin-bottom: 1.5rem;\n    }\n\n    #gutenberg-content .behaviour-wrapper h3, #gutenberg-content .behaviour-wrapper p, #gutenberg-content .behaviour-wrapper a, #gutenberg-content .behaviour-wrapper li {\n        color: #fffaf5;\n        letter-spacing: 0.02em;\n    }\n<\/style>\n\n<div id=\"block_f845628967d54455d9d77dabffc34cc0\" class=\"\">\n    <div class=\"container\">\n        <div class=\"row justify-content-center\">\n                                                <div class=\"col-md-6 col-sm-10 px-sm-3 px-0\"\n                         style=\"margin-bottom: 30px\">\n                        <div class=\"behaviour-wrapper py-3 px-sm-4 px-3\">\n                            <h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Constant Communication<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The love bomber may constantly text, call, or insist on seeing you all the time. They may also make it difficult for you to spend time alone or with your friends and family.<\/p>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                                    <div class=\"col-md-6 col-sm-10 px-sm-3 px-0\"\n                         style=\"margin-bottom: 30px\">\n                        <div class=\"behaviour-wrapper py-3 px-sm-4 px-3\">\n                            <h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Excessive compliments and gifts<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The love bomber may shower you with gifts, compliments, and attention, to make you feel special and appreciated. However, by doing this, they create the idea that you \u201cowe them,\u201d which they will likely use to manipulate later on.<\/p>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                                    <div class=\"col-md-6 col-sm-10 px-sm-3 px-0\"\n                         style=\"margin-bottom: 30px\">\n                        <div class=\"behaviour-wrapper py-3 px-sm-4 px-3\">\n                            <h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Expressing intense feelings quickly<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">They might tell you they love you and don\u2019t know what they\u2019d do without you quickly to pressure you into committing to the relationship. By rapidly creating an emotional bond, the love bomber attempts to gain control and influence over you soon in the relationship.<\/p>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                                    <div class=\"col-md-6 col-sm-10 px-sm-3 px-0\"\n                         style=\"margin-bottom: 30px\">\n                        <div class=\"behaviour-wrapper py-3 px-sm-4 px-3\">\n                            <h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Guilt-tripping<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">They may use guilt-tripping behaviors like playing the victim, making you feel responsible for their emotions, using past events to manipulate, and giving you an ultimatum to control your feelings and actions. They may also use phrases such as, \u201cI can\u2019t live without you\u201d and \u201cYou\u2019re the only one who understands me.\u201d<\/p>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                                    <div class=\"col-md-6 col-sm-10 px-sm-3 px-0\"\n                         style=\"margin-bottom: 30px\">\n                        <div class=\"behaviour-wrapper py-3 px-sm-4 px-3\">\n                            <h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Jealousy and possessiveness<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The love bomber may accuse you of cheating or being unfaithful. They could also monitor your social media use, frequently ask where you are and what you\u2019re doing, and forbid you from seeing certain people or going to certain places.<\/p>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                                    <div class=\"col-md-6 col-sm-10 px-sm-3 px-0\"\n                         style=\"margin-bottom: 30px\">\n                        <div class=\"behaviour-wrapper py-3 px-sm-4 px-3\">\n                            <h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Isolating the other person<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">They may try to isolate you from your family and friends. They might do this by telling you they no longer want you to see certain friends or family members. Alternatively, they may attempt to isolate you by talking negatively about others to change your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/psychology\/first-impressions\/\">perception<\/a> of them.<\/p>\n                        <\/div>\n                    <\/div>\n                                    <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-100 py-4 mb-4 has-background\" style=\"background-color:#fdeeeb\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-1000 mb-5\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity separator-lg\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center mb4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#c3aef0\">The Psychology Behind Love Bombing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Certain aspects of our psychological makeup can drive love-bombing behaviors. Understanding love bombing psychology, such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/psychology\/narcissistic-personality\/\">narcissism and attachment styles<\/a>, can help in identifying and avoiding this behavior.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-1260\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row justify-content-center mb-0 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-6 order-md-1 order-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#513d62\">The Role of Narcissism in Love Bombing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Evidence demonstrates <strong>there is a general rise in narcissism across populations, which may be partially responsible for the recent trend in the phenomenon of love bombing.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Researchers suggest that narcissistic tendencies are driven by the need to boost self-esteem. One way of doing so is through reassurance-seeking behaviors, like love bombing. Therefore, <strong>love bombing among narcissists may enhance feelings of self-worth and value.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Interestingly, certain narcissistic attributes can make narcissists particularly attractive to others. Narcissists are typically seen as exciting, likable during early interactions, and socially confident. While the impact of these attributes may fade during the relationship, their partner may be emotionally invested at this point, making it difficult to leave the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, it\u2019s important to be aware that narcissism often arises from an individual\u2019s early experiences with their primary caregiver. <strong>An individual may become narcissistic after receiving too much criticism or adoration from their primary caregiver in their early life stages.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Love bombing is often unconscious<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Furthermore, while love bombing is an unhealthy behavior, it\u2019s often unconscious. This means that the love bomber may engage in love bombing behaviors without even being aware they\u2019re doing so. Our early experiences of love shape our expectations of love moving forward. Therefore, if someone experiences possessive or clingy caregiving, they may offer this form of love and expect it back in a romantic relationship.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-5 col-sm-8 mb-md-0 md-4 order-md-2 order-1 d-flex flex-column justify-content-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full mb-4\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"805\" height=\"958\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-23989\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1.png 805w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1-252x300.png 252w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1-768x914.png 768w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1-630x750.png 630w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1-126x150.png 126w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1-420x500.png 420w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1-336x400.png 336w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-1-92x110.png 92w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 805px) 100vw, 805px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row justify-content-center justify-content-md-around mb-0 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-5 col-xl-4 col-sm-8 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full mb-4\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"666\" height=\"543\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-863-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24002\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-863-1.png 666w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-863-1-300x245.png 300w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-863-1-150x122.png 150w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-863-1-500x408.png 500w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-863-1-400x326.png 400w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-863-1-110x90.png 110w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 666px) 100vw, 666px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-6 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#513d62\">Love Bombing as a Manipulation Technique<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Love bombing is a psychological manipulation tactic, as the love bomber taps into our internal reward system (with gifts and affection) to gain a strong emotional bond and, ultimately, make their partner feel dependent on them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the love bomber\u2019s partner does something that the love bomber doesn\u2019t like, <strong>the love bomber may use tactics such as isolation and withdrawal of affection as forms of punishment.<\/strong> This love bombing manipulation makes their partner more likely to behave in more favorable ways in the future, as they know that if they don\u2019t, they will upset the love bomber. In this way, love bombing is a way to maintain control and sway over a romantic partner.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-1000 mb-4\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity separator-lg\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#c3aef0\">The Role of Attachment Styles in Love Bombing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center mb-2\">Why do people love bomb? Well, there are multiple possible motives behind love bombing a romantic partner. Narcissistic tendencies are one primary motivator. Some of the other common drives to love bomb include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list d-table m-auto\">\n<li>To boost self-esteem<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A Need for control and power<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Fear of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/psychology\/abandonment-issues\/\">abandonment<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A lack of emotional regulation<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>History of unstable relationships<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center mt-2\">The motivation behind love bombing may give us an indication of the love bomber\u2019s attachment style.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row justify-content-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-6 order-md-1 order-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#513d62\">How Attachment Styles Affect Love Bombing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Evidence demonstrates that individuals with insecure attachment styles (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/blog\/anxious-attachment\/\">anxious<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/blog\/avoidant-attachment-style\/\">avoidant<\/a>) are more likely to display love-bombing behaviors than <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/blog\/secure-attachment\/\">securely attached people<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s easy to see where love-bombing behaviors may originate when we consider an insecurely attached individual\u2019s learned beliefs about themselves, others, and the world.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"mb-2\">According to research, individuals with an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/blog\/insecure-attachment-in-childhood\/\">insecure attachment style<\/a> often approach adult life with an \u201cif\u2026then\u201d mindset. This may lead to thoughts like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group p-3 mb-3 has-background\" style=\"background-color:#c7b7ec4a\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list mb-0\">\n<li><em>\u201cIf my partner doesn\u2019t stop seeing that person, they must not love me.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cIf they cared about me, they would answer my text message.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>\u201cIf my partner is truly invested in our relationship, they will always prioritize my needs.\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>These kinds of thoughts reflect the general difficulties around trust and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/psychology\/abandonment-issues\/\">fear of abandonment<\/a> that people with insecure attachment styles commonly experience. Unfortunately, unrealistic relationship expectations such as these can lead to disappointment. Ultimately, this sense of disappointment can then negatively affect an insecurely attached person\u2019s sense of self.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-sm 8 col-md-5 col-xl-4 d-flex flex-column justify-content-center  order-md-2 order-1 mb-md-0 mb-4 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"729\" height=\"863\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24031\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1.png 729w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1-253x300.png 253w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1-634x750.png 634w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1-127x150.png 127w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1-422x500.png 422w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1-338x400.png 338w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/xconvert.com-2-1-93x110.png 93w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 729px) 100vw, 729px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row justify-content-center mb-0 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-sm-8 col-md-5 col-xl-4 mb-md-0 mb-4 o is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"777\" height=\"889\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1.png\" alt=\"Self-Esteem and Love Bombing\" class=\"wp-image-24041\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1.png 777w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1-262x300.png 262w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1-768x879.png 768w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1-656x750.png 656w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1-131x150.png 131w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1-437x500.png 437w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1-350x400.png 350w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-865-1-96x110.png 96w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 777px) 100vw, 777px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-6 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#513d62\">Self-Esteem and Love Bombing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>According to Professor of Psychology Edward Higgins\u2019 1987 Self-Discrepancy Theory, there are four forms of self: actual self, ideal self, should self, and undesired self. Generally, we try to avoid our undesired selves at all costs, preferring the ideal self above all others. This way of acting\/being is particularly common among people with an insecure attachment style.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"mb-3\">Someone with low self-esteem (such as someone with an insecure attachment style) may engage in reassurance-seeking behaviors to avoid feeling like the undesired self. This may take the form of:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group p-3 mb-3 has-background\" style=\"background-color:#c7b7ec4a\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list mb-0\">\n<li>Seeking feedback to affirm their partner\u2019s care for them<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Being highly dependent<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Displaying love-bombing behaviors<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Someone with an insecure attachment style may also struggle with fears of abandonment. Insecurely attached individuals may believe \u201cI\u2019m not good enough, so people always leave me\u201d due to their negative early attachment experiences. This fear of abandonment may motivate someone with an insecure attachment to use love-bombing behaviors to \u201csecure\u201d a committed relationship sooner.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-100 mb-4 py-4 has-background\" style=\"background-color:#f2f9ff\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-800\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity separator-lg\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#c3aef0\">The Impact of Love Bombing on Relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">So, why is love bombing bad? The answer to this comes down to the psychological impact it has on the person being love bombed.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-1260\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row justify-content-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-6 order-md-1 order-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#513d62\">The Impact of Love Bombing on the Target<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Love bombing can harm the target\u2019s self-esteem and sense of self-worth, which can cause feelings of shame and self-doubt. Love bombing can also leave targets overwhelmed and confused, not understanding how they became so dependent on their partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Essentially, love bombing is a form of emotional abuse.<\/strong> Love bombing abuse directly targets an individual\u2019s psychological well-being and mental health. Evidence demonstrates that emotional abuse in relationships can lead to feelings of loneliness and despair, as well as anxiety, guilt, powerlessness, over-compliance, and frequent crying.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-sm-8 col-md-5 col-xl-4  order-md-2 order-1 mb-md-0 mb-4 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"687\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-866-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24056\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-866-1.png 687w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-866-1-300x266.png 300w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-866-1-150x133.png 150w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-866-1-500x443.png 500w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-866-1-400x354.png 400w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Group-866-1-110x97.png 110w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 687px) 100vw, 687px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-1000 mb-4\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity separator-lg\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center mb-4 has-text-color\" style=\"color:#c3aef0\">How to Recognize and Protect Yourself From Love Bombing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">\u201cAm I being love bombed?\u201d is a common question people ask at the beginning of relationships, especially if things are moving quickly. It can be challenging to distinguish between genuine affection and manipulation, particularly in the early stages of a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\">Additionally, <strong>love bombing is often a subtle and gradual process, making it possible for this manipulation tactic to fall under your radar.<\/strong> Therefore, it\u2019s important to be aware of the signs of love bombing and understand how to protect yourself from love bombers in the future.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mr-md-0 mw-1300\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row pl-md-0 mt-lg-0 mt-5 mb-lg-0 justify-content-lg-start justify-content-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-lg-5 d-flex flex-column justify-content-lg-center order-lg-1 order-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Watch Out for Key Love Bomb Phrases<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Love bombers often use phrases that appear empathetic and loving but contain an underlying sense of control and manipulation. Unlike more passive behaviors such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/love\/orbiting\/\">orbiting<\/a>, love bombing is an active manipulation tactic. Some key love bomb phrases to look out for are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u201cYou\u2019re the only one who truly understands me.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cYou\u2019re perfect; I can\u2019t imagine my life without you.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cI\u2019ll change for you.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u201cI\u2019ll do anything for you.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>These phrases demonstrate intense devotion from the love bomber. However, in saying as much, they create a sense of dependency and the idea that you can\u2019t leave them because they wouldn\u2019t have anyone else to support them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Trust Your Instincts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When something feels \u201coff\u201d or \u201ctoo good to be true,\u201d it usually is. In these situations, you should trust your instincts and take a step back. When you listen to your gut &#8211; in any situation, but especially when dating &#8211; it can guide you away from circumstances that set off your internal alarm bells.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-sm-10 col-md-8 col-lg-7 col-md-10 pr-lg-0 mb-0 d-flex flex-column justify-content-center mb-lg-0 mb-4 order-lg-2 order-1 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"973\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-973x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24072\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-973x1024.jpg 973w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-285x300.jpg 285w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-768x808.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-950x1000.jpg 950w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-713x750.jpg 713w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-143x150.jpg 143w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-475x500.jpg 475w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-380x400.jpg 380w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1-105x110.jpg 105w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-305-1.jpg 1051w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 973px) 100vw, 973px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group ml-md-0 mw-1300\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row pl-md-0 mt-lg-0 mt-5 mb-lg-0 justify-content-lg-start justify-content-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-sm-10 col-md-8 col-lg-7 col-md-10 pr-lg-0 mb-0 d-flex flex-column justify-content-center mb-lg-0 mb-4 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1022\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24078\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-294x300.jpg 294w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-768x785.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-978x1000.jpg 978w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-734x750.jpg 734w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-147x150.jpg 147w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-489x500.jpg 489w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-391x400.jpg 391w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-308-1-108x110.jpg 108w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column  col-lg-5 d-flex flex-column justify-content-lg-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Be Wary of Early Expressions of Intense Emotions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Love bombers often express intense feelings quickly, potentially telling you they love you or couldn\u2019t live without you right at the beginning of a relationship. A love bomber may also show intense emotions early on to distract you from red flags, using them to cover up other manipulative and controlling behaviors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being wary of someone displaying intense emotions before you properly get to know them can help you avoid emotional manipulation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Pay Attention to Relationship Dynamics<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Love bombing can be difficult to spot when it\u2019s just one aspect of a relationship. Pay attention to the overall dynamics and carefully look out for any suspicious or manipulative behaviors and phrases. By keeping an eye out for these actions, you can protect yourself from ending up on the receiving end of love bombing.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mr-md-0 mw-1300\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row pl-md-0 mt-lg-0 mt-5 mb-lg-0 justify-content-lg-start justify-content-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-lg-5 d-flex flex-column justify-content-lg-center order-lg-1 order-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Set Boundaries and Communicate These Clearly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Boundaries are healthy in any relationship but are particularly crucial when dating. Maintaining healthy boundaries can help you avoid being love bombed as they communicate what behavior is and is not acceptable in the relationship. It also helps to protect your emotional and physical well-being as, by setting boundaries, we take responsibility for our own needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Furthermore, healthy boundaries allow you to maintain a sense of self-worth and be more assertive and confident in your interactions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#604c8d\">Take Your Time<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It takes time to get to know someone and form an emotional attachment, especially if you naturally find it hard to trust people because of your early attachment experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love happens at different stages for everyone, and it\u2019s important not to be swayed by your partner\u2019s early declarations of love or affection if you\u2019re not ready to reciprocate or commit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, it can be tricky to avoid feeling pressured, especially if you have an insecure attachment style, as this naturally draws us towards love and affection. In these instances, we can avoid love bombing by remembering our self-worth and taking the time to practice self-love.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-sm-10 col-md-8 col-lg-7 col-md-10 pr-lg-0 mb-0 d-flex flex-column justify-content-center mb-lg-0 mb-4 order-lg-2 order-1 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large mb-0\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"733\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-733x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-24084\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-733x1024.jpg 733w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-215x300.jpg 215w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-768x1073.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-716x1000.jpg 716w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-537x750.jpg 537w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-107x150.jpg 107w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-358x500.jpg 358w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-286x400.jpg 286w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1-79x110.jpg 79w, https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/image-307-1.jpg 980w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 733px) 100vw, 733px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-100 mb-4 pt-sm-5 pt-4 pb-4 has-background\" style=\"background-color:#fffaf5\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-group mw-1260\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns row justify-content-center mb-0 is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column col-md-6 order-md-1 order-2 is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading mb-4 header-with-line has-text-color\" style=\"color:#513d62\">Final Words on Love Bombing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.attachmentproject.com\/love\/love-bombing\/manipulation\/\">Love bombing is a manipulative tactic<\/a> that involves overwhelming someone with affection, attention, and praise to assert control over them. This \u201cbomb\u201d of rewarding behavior can be flattering initially but becomes overwhelming and even debilitating when affection turns to control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Understanding the connection between love bombing and attachment theory can help make sense of the confusing and conflicting emotions a love-bombed person may feel. It also sheds light on how those with an insecure attachment style may instinctively use love-bombing behaviors to create a sense of security, stability, or control in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember that relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and a balance of independence and intimacy. 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K., Lakey, C. E., Campbell, W. K., Zeigler-Hill, V., Jordan, C. H., &amp; Kernis, M. H. (2008). Untangling the Links between Narcissism and Self-esteem: A Theoretical and Empirical Review. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 2(3), 1415\u20131439.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Emotional and Psychological Abuse. (2022, September 22). WomensLaw.org.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Gionet, A. (2022, May 10). The Love Bombing Survey. The Loupe.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Karakurt, G., &amp; Silver, K. E. (2013). Emotional abuse in intimate relationships: the role of gender and age. Violence and Victims, 28(5), 804\u2013821.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Lammers, M., Ritchie, J., &amp; Robertson, N. (2005). Women&#8217;s experience of emotional abuse in intimate relationships: A qualitative study. Journal of Emotional Abuse, 5(1), 29\u201364.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Simon, S. (2022, February 7). Is It Love, Or Love Bombing? 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